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Ok, Just asking u guys for some advice here on what u would do in this situation. This isn't for me of course cause I have no life. Just wondering ;)
Now if you had been seeing a girl for a month and doing all the boy/girl stuff that people do together:cool:. Would think it was just a little inapropriate for the girl to go off on a piss trip with her ex boyfriend and his mates and get pissed / sleep in the same bed with him without even telling you until the next day when she got back?
So if she told u that nothing happened and she liked u way too much to do anything with her ex and that they are just good mates would you say...
(a) Sorry, it's all over I'm going back to the padock where the "females" are more trustworthy :rolleyes:
or...
(b) Sweet, no problems then. Lets go back to your room and play jiggle the mellons:p
Glycerine
23-06-2002, 04:49 PM
do u trust her??
Gh0s7 L3mUr
23-06-2002, 04:52 PM
It all depends on what this guy (which isn't you ;)) wants from the girl. If it's just a bit of fun he's after then what does it matter what she does when she isn't with him and visa versa. If he is after something a little more serious then I would "Kick her to the curb Girlfriend".
KingJackal
23-06-2002, 04:54 PM
Originally posted by Glycerine
do u trust her??
FFS!! It's not HIM - it's a.... friend.... or something... aye Shag? ;)
:p :p
Lol - I'm sorry. I can't possibly comment sensibly on that post, Bwaaahhhahahahaaa.... :D :D
This isn't me remember;)
*looks proudly at Whetu's nickerbockers in the display case*
But if it was me I'd say It doesent matter how much U trust someone, the reality is that when they put themselfs in positions like that sooner or later something is going to happen. And that is something that u just shouldn't do.
*polishes glass on dispay case*
utopian201
23-06-2002, 05:02 PM
yeh depends if ur friend (!!!) trusts her
hehe
:P
Gh0s7 L3mUr
23-06-2002, 05:08 PM
Originally posted by Glycerine
do u trust her??
It isn't him remember ;) :D
You have to ask her why she was chilling with her EX and getting drunk with them?
Did it remind her of the old times - if so - she may want him back - sounds dodgey to me,
Sit her down and ask the hard questions :)
dumass
23-06-2002, 05:23 PM
Well, why didnt your freind go out with her to get drunk in the first place?
It would also depend on who broke up with who (she dump her ex, or did her ex dump her?)
Geek4Life
23-06-2002, 05:24 PM
Depends on how good she is in bed and whether you mind sharing or not. :D
But generally turf her out, unless she is THE ONE.
Well, why didnt your freind go out with her to get drunk in the first place?
He was just about to to around to her place for a night of nookie when he got short phone call from her saying that she was going to another town with a few friends and not to bother comming over. He just thought she ment that she was going out with her female flatmate and a few others. not a mini bus full of guys:rolleyes:
Depends on how good she is in bed and whether you mind sharing or not.
Well I uhmmm... hear that she is very naughty in bed..and everywhere else where she thinks she can get away with it.
There's also a bit of an age difference here. Her boyfriend is 28 and she's 16... well this is down south.
Deviant
23-06-2002, 05:38 PM
If you are not open and up fron from the start, then something funny is going on, or the person wants somthing funny to go on.
If it really were nothing, she would have said, "I'm going out with my ex and a few of his mates, but you trust me right" but instead by hiding info she basically lied.
Tell ya mate to plant his number 10 shoe up her butt while she's heading out the door.
dustyslapper
23-06-2002, 05:46 PM
Maybe its time to let the sixteen year old girl get some rest, she has school in the morning.
16 vs 28 would be the biggest problem I can forsee - let alone her clinging to the ex....
mird-OC
23-06-2002, 05:48 PM
well your friend should count himself lucky, as it's a fact that there's only two types of women in the world: b1tches and sluts. i can elaborate on this if need be :)
but seriously now, it's entirely impossible for anyone to make any firm commitments after just one month. if it lasts to six months and the same thing is happening on the regular, then it would be time to reassess the situation. as it stands, it may be a slighty uncomfortable situation for your "friend", but feelings like that are just part of any relationship.
Maybe its time to let the sixteen year old girl get some rest, she has school in the morning.
She's left home, and school. She has a polytech course that she goes too durring the day.
well your friend should count himself lucky, as it's a fact that there's only two types of women in the world: b1tches and sluts. i can elaborate on this if need be
I don't think there would be any problem with you doing that:cool:
mird-OC
23-06-2002, 06:53 PM
Originally posted by shag
I don't think there would be any problem with you doing that:cool:
well, sluts sleep with everyone. b1tches sleep with everyone except you.
;)
This is my female friend's response to mird-OC...
there's only one type of men.,,. son of a b1tch.. theysleep with every woman, whether they are *****es or sluts
SilverPriest
23-06-2002, 08:26 PM
Nice Hans, nice :D
And Shag, tell your "mate" to get her to sod off, and move onto greener pastures.
Plenty of more fish in the sea without putting up with BS mindgames...
Not that i'm jaded or anything....
Humantuckshop
23-06-2002, 08:30 PM
Originally posted by shag
There's also a bit of an age difference here. Her boyfriend is 28 and she's 16... well this is down south.
Well, that's just wrong. What the hell does your friend expect to achieve from this relationship? 16 year old girls are just to scatty and emotionally retarded, IMHO......
Shag: Ask the 'How's Life' team.......
Hans: Your female friend needs to get over the guy(s) who dumped her ass. :p
TheChosen_1
23-06-2002, 08:59 PM
Sounds to me like she still likes to sleep around. I say in Ricki Lake terms " Kick her to the curb*!!!:D You are right though guys, girls are looking more sluttier and sluttier by the day, I dont have a problem if its at a later age like 18 or 19 but when little 14 and 16 year olds are doing it is time for them to be destroyed. If I had a baseball bat I would deal to them with it!!!! But thats just me, you can use my method or use your own.
...I wouldnt really do that:)
*puts baseball bat down and takes of shoes and sits back down with frown on face*:confused:
dumass
23-06-2002, 10:56 PM
I spose the ending factor would be how 'good looking' your freind is..
If he dumps her could he get a new bi@#tch quickly / could he hold out for a while
or is he but ugly and lucky to have her?
re: age difference: were does he go to pick up chicks that young?! hes 28 and goes to parties to pick up 16yr olds?
Wibber
23-06-2002, 11:21 PM
your 'friend' can not expect to have a meaningful relationship with a 16 yr old. so it depends what he wants, if its a little bit of action, then sweet, whatever, but if he's looking for a deep emotional connection, than there's allways you aye? :P
Artifice
24-06-2002, 10:40 AM
Tell your mate hes on to a good thing. just ask her if the other girlfriend can come round and play too. :D
SecretSquirrel
24-06-2002, 11:20 AM
[waves his black fingers]
b!tches be nothing but tricks and ho's!
Seriously, she = ditched.
If she wasnt up to no good, she'd have said exactly what her plans were, and also would at least offer for him to join the party...but of course, thats common sense.
She's 16, and she has recently moved out of home...I am seeing some familiar things here, I too had a similar experience with an ex, but being young and naiive, I didnt notice straight away...of course, when we were drunk and at a party, and she said 'oh I slept with someone else' and I was like 'Woah, bye' and she was like...no, actually, it all ended there.
Anyway, conclusion = find someone a little older, or more mature, sex isnt everything, it just makes the rest of life seem better :)
Money helps, also.
:D
whetu
24-06-2002, 11:46 AM
28 with a 16 year old gf says to me: "loser"
i give less than a sh*t about her "problems", i've seen it all before... ive had a few gf's like that, i learnt the hard way.
she'll be the kind of girl who needs a smack upside the head, she needs to go home, and she needs to sort her sh*t out. all her "problems" are either from bad parenting, or from her trying to bring attention to herself
as for mr 28 year old, tell him to do himself a favour and give himself a black eye. then hang a sign above his bed that says "i will not be a cradle snatcher"
end.
Deviant
24-06-2002, 12:19 PM
Originally posted by whetu
28 with a 16 year old gf says to me: "loser"
I agree Whetu, but some where down the line:
70 with a 25 year old gf says to me: lucky SOB rich MOFO.
I agree Whetu, but some where down the line: 70 with a 25 year old gf says to me: lucky SOB rich MOFO
Yeah did u see the thing on Hue Hefner last night? That poor bastard has it rough:rolleyes: LOL
re: age difference: were does he go to pick up chicks that young?! hes 28 and goes to parties to pick up 16yr olds?
You don't have to go out to parties to pick up girls. Sometimes u just get home to find some in your bed or they find excusses to come around and visit with their friends:D. Oooo... and then there's the ones that hunt in packs and chase unsuspecting geeks into dark alleys to have their wicked way with them:p All they really need, is to know someone who knows you and they will come ;)
*Wakes up*
But of course that never happens to geeks who don't go out much:(
Does it?
Any of you guys ever experienced that sort of thing?
Mmmmm... Whetu, I had hoped that the thing we tried with the tub of deep heat and the mountian goat last friday would have done the trick:confused:.
Obviously our massage sessions need to be a little more agressive to work out those tensions. I'll have a good think about it tonight and whip up a new plan of attack;).
Deviant
25-06-2002, 12:30 PM
No Shag, that sort of thing does't happen in reality.
Go back to sleep, and I'm sure Mrs Palm and her 5 daughters will visit.
mird-OC
25-06-2002, 01:19 PM
i experince it ALL THE TIME... except the girls are flying around on pigs...
Subaru_Fan
25-06-2002, 01:26 PM
Originally posted by shag
Well I uhmmm... hear that she is very naughty in bed..and everywhere else where she thinks she can get away with it.
There's also a bit of an age difference here. Her boyfriend is 28 and she's 16... well this is down south.
Holy Dogfighting Cessna's Batman!
There's your problem, the 28 y/o guy wants some 16 y/o again...
And visa versa me thinks..
actually hold on, the current boyfriend is 28 or the ex is 28?
varkk
25-06-2002, 02:38 PM
Originally posted by shag
...Sometimes u just get home to find some in your bed ...
[southern accent]I guess them folks are a bit different round them there parts[/accent]
utopian201
25-06-2002, 07:59 PM
har har "How's Life"
hehe
hunting parties where u r the prey r cool har har
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